People reading this may say "so, on what are you going to base your answers?' which, if you think about it, is a very good question. We all are people who have opinions and most of us like to share our ignorance daily. And frequently.
God has a lot to share with man. He is not silent. He communicates. And all He communicated was set down in the 66 books found between the covers of the Holy Bible. It is very important we listen and memorize portions we find helpful for our situation.
Psalm 119 says "Your word have I hidden in my heart that I might not sin against God." Also "Your word is a lamp onto my feet and a light unto my path."
In a later posting I will gladfully share how to do that.